a place for me to check in...

i have been a writer all my life, and keeping a journal has keep me sane in the toughest of times. 


i’ve been writing in an online blog on and off since middle school and even this one has gone through several face-lifts over the years. every year i tell myself i will write one blog post a month, but i am consistently failing miserably.


but maybe, just maybe, i’ll work it out soon enough…


– nilanda, xo

Latest Post

why does my brain do this to me

I haven’t been feeling my best this week… I’ve felt okay in spurts of time, but sometimes I’m not sure if I actually felt okay or if I made myself act a little over the top in...

Past Posts

Family Filled Holidays

The New Year is finally here! The past couple of weeks have been a busy mix of spending time with family, friends, and squeezing in time for self-care and cleaning. Family time is always increased...

Winter Wind Down

As I grabbed my coffee from the drive thru window, the first sign of winter appeared: a flurry of snow. It wasn’t the kind of flakes that would stick to the ground, or even last longer than a few...

Building My First PC

After years of wanting to, I finally bought all the parts to build my first personal computer. I was always nervous about making the jump from Apple to PC. I use an iPhone and adore my MacBook Pro. I...

Is it Spring?

It’s no surprise that weather impacts a person’s mood. In the past I’ve often experienced this ‘winter depression.’ However, this year I’ve become more appreciative...

25: Wild and Alive

I am still riding the high of turning TWENTY-FIVE. I celebrated my birthday for an entire week, and I am in such awe of all the love I felt, and what an amazing time I had. My birthday falls on...

Emotional Setbacks

My relatively good mood and positive attitude for this year has hit its first bump in the road. A bit of drama and a emotional blast from the past have made the past few days hard on my mental space...

2018: A New Year

New Year’s Eve used to be my favorite holiday when I was younger. I liked the idea of dressing up and partying just because. I also love the aesthetic – a mixture of all my favorite colors...

Life Updates, and the End of 2017

It has been quite awhile since I have posted here. I guess I’ve been preoccupied and too lazy to put anything up. However, I definitely wanted to close 2017 properly by documenting where...

Annicelli Wedding

This past weekend I celebrated the marriage of my friends Diana and Nicholas. I’ve known them both since high school, and was thrilled to attend their wedding. The ceremony was beautiful, a...